Getting A Facelift, Not a Face Full (A Reflection on Psalm 119:22-24)

 The following post is a reflection on Psalm 119:22-24, which reads,

Take away from me scorn and contempt,
    for I have kept your testimonies.

Even though princes sit plotting against me,

    your servant will meditate on your statutes.

Your testimonies are my delight;

    they are my counselors. (ESV)

Since the psalms were the prayer vocabulary of Israel, this is a prayer that Jesus would have likely prayed, for he was faced with scorn and contempt on multiple occasions.

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Have you noticed the faces of those who show scorn and contempt for others? They become ugly and distorted in the process of verbally vomiting their inner brokenness in an attempt to break others. 

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And frequently, when a person receives scorn and contempt, their own face falls into frowns of sadness, grimaces of pain, and may even become twisted in anger. How can we have a facelift in such circumstances? Remember Psalm 3:3-4,

But you, O Lord, are a shield about me,
    my glory, and the lifter of my head.

I cried aloud to the Lord,
    and he answered me from his holy hill. 

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God is the one who lifts our head and our face in answer to our prayer. In Psalm 119, verse 22 is likely a lament—a prayer request—asking that God would turn away the scorn and contempt being directed at the psalmist. This request is made in the context of his recognition that he was merely sojourning here on earth; he was not home yet (v. 19). This is God’s world, and as sojourners, we need to follow his testimonies. 

In his commentary on Psalm 119, Michael Wilcock wrote,

God’s people have always needed to be reminded of this. Every day we walk familiar roads; This is our hometown, our home country, we say. Yes and no, says God. This is my world, and you are here as garîm, expatriates. ‘The land is mine, and you are but aliens and my tenants.’ [Lev. 25:23] That means you observe the laws and manners of your host country. We begin to see why the psalmist, a stranger on earth, cries, Do not hide your commands from me. He needs God's handbook for the duration of his residence in God's world.

What creates problems for him, and underlines his need of such a handbook, is the fact that though this really is God's world, there are plenty of people in it who do not behave as if it were (vv. 21-22). On all sides he sees the arrogant and the accursed, and their scorn and contempt for God's principles. He is bound to be affected, and fears being infected, by all this. He does not have to be abroad for rulers to slander him…[1]

I especially love his line about how we are to “observe the laws and manners of your host country.” While it is wise for us to do this at the human and international levels, few realize that this world doesn’t belong to independent people or even to nations; it belongs to the Lord God Almighty. Thankfully, the Lord and Creator is also our loving Heavenly Father!

However, it is also possible that this prayer could be more reflective than that. One of the dangers of law-keeping is that of judgmentalism directed towards those less spiritually mature. Do we need to ask God to take away the scorn and contempt that can rise in our hearts for those whom we consider offensively “other”? It is one thing to disagree with someone, but it is another to demonize and denounce them. Our 21^st-century culture is highly charged, so every spoken reaction, every written statement, every posted opinion, may either attract or repel in an amplified way.

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I know that when I look at the behavior of those who hate God and his word, and hear the vain ideas that they would want to enforce upon others, it is not hard to turn their scorn and contempt back on their own heads with an ample dose of laughter. However, that is not likely to win them over to the truth. Jesus said we would be mocked, just as he was. He also challenged his followers not to show scorn and contempt for others.[2] This can be very difficult. We are culturally conditioned to retaliate at some point. However, the psalmist shows us that there is a way that we can limit the risk of our slipping into a scornful, contemptuous attitude. 

Did you notice? Psalm 119 is the longest in the Bible, and nearly every verse points us to the answer we need. In the three verses at the center of this post, we see the psalmist engaging God’s Word in obedience, diligent thought, and heartfelt delight.

v. 22b …for I have kept your testimonies.

v.23b …your servant will meditate on your statutes.

v.24 Your testimonies are my delight; they are my counselors.

It is when we keep, meditate, and delight in the Word of God that we see the personality of God revealed, and it changes us for the better. It is not so much learning the words on the page as it is meeting the one who waits on the other side of the page, for they all speak of Jesus Christ (e.g., Luke 24:27; Acts 28:23; Romans 3:21-26). 

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Is there another testimony that I have committed myself to follow? Are there other ideas, values, and mission statements on which we focus our deepest thoughts? Have we allowed something, or someone, else to become our closest confidants, the ones who help to direct our lives, other than God’s Word? If so, then let this psalm be the light that patiently and persistently sets you back on the path.

Jesus can identify with us in our pain, for he endured terribly scornful mocking at the hands of Romans and Jews alike. He knew that his followers would also face the same treatment. In John 15:19-20, Jesus made this very clear to his followers.

If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will also keep yours.

Not only should we not be surprised when we are on the receiving end of hateful and false speech, but Jesus also reminds us that, far from being a soul-crushing defeat, such undeserved treatment is, in fact, a spiritual blessing!

“Blessed are you when others revile you

                                  and persecute you

      and utter all kinds of evil against you

                                              falsely on my account.

Rejoice and be glad,

          for your reward is great in heaven,

                       for so they persecuted

         the prophets who were before you.” (Matt. 5:11-12)

Peter, who once thought of taking up a sword to defend the Lord against scorn and unjust arrest, finally came to understand the Lord’s way and wrote,

Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing. (1 Peter 3:8-9)

The one who meditates and delights in God’s testimonies will embody the qualities of verse 8 and receive the blessing of verse 9.

Let his words be our counselors! They do a better job than Botox!

[This reflection was originally posted on my Psalms blog: Psalms-honest2god]

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[1] Wilcock, Michael, The Message of the Psalms, 199.

[2] In Matthew 5:22-23, Jesus forbids his followers from even calling others derogatory names out of anger. Paul wrote in Eph. 4:29-32, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

In the Meekness of Wisdom?

Some 2000 years ago, Jesus of Nazareth said some shockingly counter-culture things that will still wreck us, in a profoundly wonderful way, if we are willing to let them take root in our hearts. Not the least among these are the “Blessed are the…” statements from Matthew 5:3-12 that we call the Beatitudes. In these surprising statements, Jesus set forth the values of the kingdom of God as diametrically opposed to the values of the world. I often delineate them as kingdom (of heaven/God) values vs. empire (worldly pride) values.

This post deals with just one of those statements, “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.” (Matt. 5:5)

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The meek were those people who were oppressed and yet looked forward in the certainty of hope for the vindication that God would bring about. Their trust was in God and not in their own efforts. There is wisdom in that approach. Yet, as we try to lead and serve missionally, does meekness play a significant role in who we are, how we do ministry, and how we interact with the culture around us? I am sad to say that meekness is not something that shows up on the checklist for a pastoral search committee. Our culture has conditioned us to look for “catalytic leaders” instead. Is it any wonder that we often end up with an Eliab or Aminadab that looks good on the outside and appears able to get things done, instead of a David who has a heart after God?

Meekness, as an attribute, has always been scorned by the rich and the powerful and, perhaps more surprisingly, by many social-justice advocates as well. The conventional wisdom is that we must fight for everything because we all deserve better. We are encouraged to boldly stand up for our rights and the rights of others as we see them. In the process, we tend to self-sanctify our causes de jour. 

In his classic book, Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes, Kenneth E. Bailey made a particularly insightful observation while discussing the narrative of the man who wanted Jesus to decide an inheritance case between himself and his brother (Luke 12:13).

The person who fights for a just cause usually thinks that he or she is thereby a just person. Everything such a person does in fighting for that cause usually becomes right in her or his own eyes. Woe to those who fall under the sway of this kind of self-created justice. This parable presents a new perspective on the cry for justice. In the story before us, the petitioner has already decided what justice requires and wants the visiting rabbi to enforce the petitioner's view. How will Jesus respond? [italics mine][1]

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Once we think that our just cause has made us a just person, it is too easy to justify any action or attitude used to advance our cause. Have we, like the man speaking to Jesus, “already decided what justice requires” and determined to demand our fair share, or are we teachable to the leading of Christ through the Spirit? We should be cautioned by the example of Jesus, who, deeply concerned for the deliverance of the downtrodden and oppressed as stated in his announcement in the Nazareth synagogue (Luke 4:16-21), never stoops to such ends-justify-the-means behavior. He was intentional in preparing his disciples to resist the impulse to defend their own cause.

“Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

“Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you. (Matt. 5:10-12)

And just a bit further on,

“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’

But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. (Matt. 5:38-40)

The Apostle Paul later wrote to the church in Rome (Romans 12:14-21), expanding on Proverbs 25:21-22, with a hard-hitting nine-point list. See if you don’t agree!

• Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
• Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 
• Live in harmony with one another. 
• Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. 
• Never be wise in your own sight.
• Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.
• If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
• Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 
• Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Bullets mine)

Paul also confronted the Corinthian church’s temptation to think themselves wise and strong with his apostolic example,

To the present hour

             we hunger and thirst,

             we are poorly dressed and buffeted and homeless, and

             we labor, working with our own hands. 

                           When reviled, we bless; 

                            when persecuted, we endure; 

                            when slandered, we entreat. 

We have become, and are still, like the scum of the world, 

                                                         the refuse of all things. (1 Corinthians 4:11-13)

Why do so many Christians on social media platforms write combatively rather than engagingly, responding defensively rather than graciously towards those who do not believe or behave exactly as they do? Why are we not more like Paul, who was willing to be treated like dumpster dregs for the cause of the gospel?

Jesus’ non-resistance and commitment to love and forgive his accusers through his Passion week, up to his death, was a powerful witness to his followers and to his oppressors alike (Matt. 27:54; Mark 15:39; Luke 23:47; John 18:33-38; Acts 8:32-35). Jesus’ power was under the control of the loving plan of the Father, and he has given us an example to follow.

But if when you do good and suffer for it you endure, this is a gracious thing in the sight of God. For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth. When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly. (1 Peter 2:20-23)

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Why is it that we often don’t have the same effect on those who observe our lives through curated windows of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.? Biblical meekness was, and is, not weakness, and we have probably heard that instead, it is “power under control.” Certainly, we have power and authority, bestowed by Christ’s commission and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit (Matt. 28:18; Acts 1:8) yet we do well to remember that our “battle” is not with other people (Eph. 6:12). But for the Christian, what is the control to which we submit? Is it the law of legalistic requirements? Is it the law of what people think about us? Or is it the law of liberty?

It is human nature to defend oneself when oppressed and even more when falsely accused. Yet, mature followers of Jesus learn that it is better to trust Jesus to be our defender. He will set things right, though perhaps not according to our timetable.

If the kindness of God leads to repentance (Rom. 2:4) and we have benefited from that kindness and mercy, then we should extend it to others! (James 2:13)

As I was journaling through the book of James, I was struck by a phrase in chapter three, “the meekness of wisdom” (3:13). I think that we can learn more about meekness when we see with what it is contrasted.

Who is wise and understanding among you? 

By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom.

But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. (James 3:13-18 emphasis mine)

In this passage, commentators and preachers often focus on “wisdom from above” and skip over the initial descriptor of that wisdom— “meekness.” It is not a stretch to say that true wisdom is meek. It is neither tainted by “bitter jealousy” nor by “selfish ambition”. In fact, the nine descriptions of heavenly wisdom help us to see meekness more fully. I don’t think that it is a leap to say that meekness is…

• pure,
• peaceable,
• gentle,
• open to reason, 
• full of mercy
• full of good fruits,
• impartial 
• sincere.
• Its righteousness is sown in peace.

Also, as we read this list, it sounds a lot like the whole list of the beatitudes and the values of the kingdom of heaven. No surprise…they come from the same place. You can tell by the accent. When people read our posts, tweets, and comments, what does our “accent” reveal about us and the source of our message?

Can we move into such meekness that on one side is desperate asking for and obeying God's guidance and direction—contentedly accepting justice at his hands—while intentionally seeking to relate to others gently, doing no further harm, as we work for the wholeness of justice both within and without? I hope so.

[Here are some other “meek” verses not already addressed in this article: Isaiah 29:17-21; Psalm 37:10-11; 45:4; Numbers 12:2-4; James 1:21; 2 Corinthians 10:1]

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[1] Kenneth E. Bailey. Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes: Cultural Studies in the Gospels (p. 301).